"As Paul was waiting for them in Athens, he was deeply troubled by the all the idols he saw everywhere in the city...."
Lord, I am deeply troubled by the idols I see everywhere around me and within me. These are some of the idols I see and experience:
- Fear of standing out; embarrassment; offending another - even for the sake of Truth
- Comfort; safety; entertainment; luxury in body, mind, and spirit
- Freedom and tolerance in spite of Godly boundaries
- Work, career, identity, approval
- Power, control, status, success
- Fitting in with worldly culture
As they went on to play their games with grandma in tow, I set up a table for me to study. Since my quiet time has been lacking the last week, I decided to review my memory work first. The verses in Acts 17 took on a whole new meaning:
"While Paul was waiting for them in Athens,"
While I was waiting for Tanner and Tyler to play at Gameworks....
"he was deeply troubled by all the idols he saw everywhere in the city."
I was disturbed by the extreme draw my kids experience towards gaming, electronics, and technology; by the way they idolize the experience; by their complete lack of understanding towards those less fortunate (i.e., their extreme selfishness).
"It should be explained that all the Athenians as well as the foreigners in Athens seemed to spend all their time discussing the latest ideas."
I have read that some of the Athenians represented in this group of philosophers were Epicureans. The focus of their lives was pleasure and happiness, like that of modern day materialists and hedonists. As I "fully experienced" the atmosphere and purpose of Gameworks, I felt so sad thinking of the materialistic pleasures on which my children depend.
"Men of Athens, I notice you are very religious, for as I was walking along, I saw your many alters...."
Later today, Tanner asked why he was not paid money for doing a good deed. I responded by asking him why I am not paid for doing nice things.... He said, "I should be paid to go to school...." To which I responded with something along the lines of, "Someday you will be paid as a result of your commitment to learn." Tanner wasn't impressed!
Paul was able to speak with the philosophers and leaders of his day in Athens because he was well-schooled. He had a broad base of knowledge; he was well-spoken and persuasive; he spent his life thinking and reasoning about the Scriptures. As Christians, education is important because we must be able to reason and relate with many kinds of people. We must be able to think critically about complex topics. We must understand, evaluate, and synthesize a variety of viewpoints to create Christlike responses in ways that our intended audiences will hear and respond.
Today, the focus of my critical thinking is related to how I should respond to my children; how I might influence their self-centered thinking; how I might guide them away from their addiction to entertainment and technology. Applying Christlikeness to daily living is difficult and sooooo counter-cultural. Oh my Lord, how is this possible? I need your guidance, strength, and power!


Your boys probably don't know yet what they don't know. They will. Right now, they like the thrill of competition and interaction and challenge of the game, just like the boys probably playing soccer on the dirt road in front of our old house in Benin. There will be a chance for your boys to discover what we know as adults, and I share your concern because I don't think the realities of this world have soaked into their minds or hearts even with all they have seen.
ReplyDeleteTake heart, and I enjoyed your integration of Acts 17 with the contemporary reality. Paul adds, "He determined the times set for them and the exact places where they should live. God did this so that men would seek him and perhaps reach out for him and find him, though he is not far from each one of us. 'For in him we live and move and have our being.'"
Thank you, Matt, you've blessed me this morning! Parenting is hard work that grips my heart many days. Some days the enemy tries to tell me I've already made too many mistakes. The Truth you share here reminds me again of the power of God to reach my kids in all circumstances. I need to remember that He loves them even more than me!
ReplyDeleteRaising children is definitely not for cowards. I really believe that being a Christian makes it even more stressful because your highest priority is guiding your children to a point where their relationship with God is real and personal. Looking back I realize the many times I wondered if anything we were saying and doing was catching. It certainly takes a lot of patience, prayer and most of all Trust. That trust is not in your parenting skills but in the God who loves you and your children more than we can ever fathom. You are doing fine, they understand lots more than they are letting on. Actually, when we are at a place where we don't have the answers that is probably the best place to be because we know PERSONALLY the one who knows ALL of the answers.
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